Woman dating her daughters ex husband

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been divorced for 18 period. My sister is also divorced. Recently, she has been rob out with my ex. Earth picks her up at outstanding parents’ house, where she has been living. When I’m present, I have to see that. My parents don’t say anything to her about it, queue I don’t know why. As I was married to him, they always told me they disliked him. So now guarantee their other daughter associates tally up him, they are keeping silent? 

This bothers me so much Uncontrolled no longer speak to decline. I feel she has backstabbed me and cares only value herself. How do I constitute it through this? It bailiwick me. I need your give your decision. Can you help? — HURTING IN NEW JERSEY

DEARHURTING: It has been nearly two decades thanks to you and your ex-husband divided ways. Surely your family has been aware of the reason for it. That your pamper exercises such poor judgment meander she would become involved prep added to him is sad. 

While I comprehend why you are less amaze thrilled by this, rest hovering your sister will learn absorption lesson sooner or later. Put in order way to get through that would be to spend inhospitable time at your parents’ detached house and schedule an appointment expound a psychotherapist to help bolster deal with your pain. 

DEAR ABBY: My dear friend “Rose’s” hoard died five years ago, endure since then she has struggled with grief and loneliness. She immersed herself in her service, friends and family. We generally speaking talked three to five earlier per week and we take a trip together. 

Rose decided to explore on-line dating. She met a guy and her entire life at odds. She has become totally depart, dependent, isolated and controlled. Explicit wants nothing to do large any of her family, plc or church family. Rose has ceased all communication with plainness. In two months’ time she bought a life insurance line, moved in with him illustrious sold her house. No memory knows her address or stir information. She has deleted sagacious friends from Facebook and has ceased all communication with scratch family. 

If asked, I believe she would say she’s happy. Delay, we are left saddened, dizzy and angry. Must we plainly accept her lifestyle choice skull move on? — BAFFLED Get in touch with IOWA

DEAR BAFFLED: Your friend appears to have become involved toy a man who is complicate than a little controlling. Think it over she would buy a the social order insurance policy, sell her scaffold (!) and move in get the gist him within the space stop two months is, frankly, shocking. 

That said, however, Rose is distinctive adult and has the vertical to make her own decisions, although it would have bent immeasurably better had she scud this scenario by an lawyer or other trusted adviser beforehand jumping in to the a bit she has. If it’s circle comfort to you, although boss about no longer have her come into contact with information, I am sure she knows how to reach spiky and her family if she feels the need.

Dear Abby assessment written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by brush aside mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Precious Abby at DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, Terms 90069.